Tantrums
You’ve just been soundly beaten and just to ensure that the spectators see your frustration you decide to kick the barriers, swear and throw your bat onto the table.
This behaviour is similar to a tactic that a puffer fish employs when vulnerable. They enlarge themselves so that they appear to their prey much bigger than they really are.
Losing is part of learning table-tennis. Loosing sometimes hurt if you you have been playing at less than your best. Throwing a tantrum does not, cannot and will not change the score or the outcome of the game. Children do it when they can’t get their way. There is no place for this behaviour in the modern game and should be challenged whenever it occurs.
How do winners deal with tantrums? They pretend the tantrum didn’t happen; they avoid eye contact with the opponent, and get on with the game at the earliest opportunity. If it ever occurs to them that they feel like kicking the hell out of the opponent, instead of doing that, they win the match; with the bat!
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